French expression · updated October 6, 2026

pote

(old slang) — palBuddy, mate — the everyday colloquial word for friend

Un pote is a buddy, mate or pal — the standard colloquial word for friend. Old slang revived by the 1980s anti-racism slogan 'Touche pas à mon pote' ('hands off my buddy'), it's now completely mainstream. 'Mon meilleur pote' is my best mate; copain and pote live side by side in casual French.

Sketch illustrating the French expression pote

Where you'll hear it

Éthan

Dis-moi Marine, c'était qui ton meilleur pote d'enfance ?

Tell me Marine, who was your best childhood friend?

Marine

Ah, ça c'est une sacrée question ! En toute franchise, c'était une fille qui s'appelait Chloé. On était comme cul et chemise, inséparables quoi !

Ah, that's quite a question! To be honest, it was a girl named Chloé. We were like two peas in a pod, inseparable!

Éthan

Oh là là, raconte-moi tout ! Vous vous êtes rencontrées comment ?

Oh wow, tell me everything! How did you meet?

Marine

Malheureusement non. Elle a déménagé quand on avait 12 ans. J'étais dévastée. J'aurais aimé qu'elle reste, mais bon, c'est la vie.

Unfortunately not. She moved away when we were 12. I was devastated. I wish she had stayed, but well, that's life.

Marine

Plein ! Je me souviens d'une fois où on a décidé de faire une "potion magique" dans sa cuisine. On a mélangé tout ce qu'on trouvait : ketchup, yaourt, jus d'orange... C'était dégueu !

Loads! I remember once when we decided to make a "magic potion" in her kitchen. We mixed everything we could find: ketchup, yogurt, orange juice... It was disgusting!

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How it shows up

  1. Je sors avec mes potes ce soir.

    I'm going out with my mates tonight.

  2. C'est mon pote d'enfance.

    He's my childhood buddy.

  3. Un pote m'a conseillé ce resto.

    A friend recommended this restaurant to me.

Questions people ask

What does 'mon pote' mean?

My mate, my buddy. Mon pote is the singular, mes potes the plural, and ma pote works for a female friend.

Is pote rude?

No. Informal, not rude: fine with friends and family, out of place in a job interview.

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